Myth 4: You won’t get infected with HIV if you pee after unprotected sex
This again is not right. Whether it is a man or a woman, peeing after unprotected sex may not prevent transmission of HIV. When the seminal or vaginal fluids get exchanged between them during unprotected sex, it may not matter whether they pee after sex or wash their genitals with soap.
Myth 5: HIV positive people can’t deliver healthy babies
There are some conditions in this case:
- If a healthy woman with a HIV positive male partner wants to get pregnant, the man should be on ART and if he has low or negligible viral load, passing on the infection to the woman or baby is virtually 0.
- If a pregnant woman finds that she is HIV positive, she has to be on ART until the baby is delivered and then the baby should also be on ART for few weeks. To deliver the baby, C-section may be preferred and bottle feeding is advised.
There are many cases where a HIV positive mother has given birth to a perfectly healthy baby.
Myth 6: If you are HIV positive, you will become an AIDS patient
AIDS stands for Acquired ImmunoDeficiency Syndrome which is a condition when the immune system is compromised due to HIV infection. When the immune system of a person is compromised, there are chances for opportunistic infection by bacteria, fungus or other microbes that can cause severe deterioration in health.
If an infected person starts ART as soon he/she is detected positive, compromising the strength of immune system takes a very long time as the medicines keep the viral load under control. This doesn’t give way for opportunistic infection resulting in AIDS condition.
Myth 7: HIV can be cured
It is very unfortunate that HIV remains untreatable just like several other viral infections even after science has made leaps and bounds of progress. We don’t have vaccine either to prevent HIV or tell the body to fight it off when infected. All that can be done is to put a tab on the exponential growth of the virus in the body using ART medicines. There are several controversial theories that show complete remission of HIV but there are no approved treatment methods either by the FDA or any other medical authority in the world.
Myth 8: If you are on PrEP, you don’t need to use a condom
Well, this is not 100% true. PrEP stands for PreExposure Prophylaxis. Medical authorities recommend PrEP for sexually active men and women who involve in risky sexual behaviours. Medicines given as a part of PrEP have to be taken every day to keep oneself away from HIV infection. However, this doesn’t prevent transmission of other sexually transmitted infections.
As per some good sexologists like Dr. Karthik Gunasekaran, who also specializes in treating HIV positive people in Chennai, Tamil Nadu, people who are on PrEP and don’t follow safe sex practices are diagnosed with some kind of STD after a year. PrEP can be 100% successful when safe sex practices are followed, he says.
Myth 9: If you test negative in the first 30 days after unprotected sex, you are safe
Not really. Some tests just measure the antibodies that are released by the body when the body identifies HIV infection. If your body is not aware of infection even after 30 days, it may not release any antibodies that are detectable by some HIV tests. In such cases, your report may show negative.
You must always get tested after 90 days after participating in unprotected sex to be sure that you are HIV negative.
There are several tests that can done at different times post unprotected sex or risky behaviour to determine if a person is HIV positive, you can read about them by visiting the following article:
Myth 10: If both the partners are HIV positive, there is no need for a condom
It is still unsafe for both the partners to have sex without a condom even after both of them are HIV positive.
- One partner may have one strain for which he/she may be taking medication while other partner may be having another strain of HIV. When these two get exchanged, there is a possibility of developing a different strain which is resistant to the ART that is being given.
- Also, if any one of the partners is suffering from any different STD other than HIV, they are highly likely to pass it on to the other partner making their health condition worse.
HIV cannot be cured as of date even with the great advancements that the medical community has achieved. Prevention is the only way to stay healthy. Avoid having unprotected sex with an unfamiliar or new partner or if possible, refrain from having sex with unknown people. One episode of unprotected sex (either penetrative or oral) is enough to get infected; though the odds are less they are not 0.